tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-22453353585354934432024-03-05T18:42:04.041-05:00me and only memsband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.comBlogger95125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-5459435264491854962019-10-09T07:58:00.000-04:002019-10-09T07:58:12.016-04:00Change is goodIt has been a year since my last post and many things have happened:<br />
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With all of that said, I have continued growing and working on being my best self. As odd as this sounds, I like attending networking mixers and functions to meet others in my same line of work. That keeps me motivated to be better and do better. Plus, it gives me a chance to see others for who they are and it shows how I can relate to them. Many times, I’ve assumed that people aren’t going through the same issues as I have. It’s when I meet new people where I find that assumption to be untrue. </div>
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Despite what things look like right now, always remember to keep a smile on your face. </div>
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Until next time...</div>
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msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-87863932934004877792018-10-16T21:05:00.000-04:002018-10-16T21:05:10.250-04:00I struggle with a lack of confidence from time to time. Not sure if the title grabs you, but I am sure I'm not the only one who has dealt with confidence issues.<br />
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Lately, I have dealt with lack of confidence due to many changes in my life. From almost finishing a degree to job loss to a new job offer to relocating to career woes in general. I've gone through all those emotions within a short timeframe and these events contributed to my growing confidence issues.<br />
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In recent years, I have had many moments where my confidence has shown through, especially when it came to either mentoring others or helping someone with a personal problem. Even as I write this, I think back to the times where I was complimented on how well I did something and how I presented myself. My mindset has changed my thinking into believing that I can no longer be confident in what I do or in how I accomplish tasks at hand. <br />
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Man, when I was younger, I use to be so much more efficient! As a student in Undergrad, I was ALWAYS doing my absolute best in class and otherwise. I knew that whatever I did, it would come back on me, so, I had to be my best self. That expectation level eventually turned into a certain level of confidence that seemed to stand out in certain crowds. Now, while those expectations are still there, I get feelings of self-doubt and end up going through self-deprecation...heavy! A lot of people don't even notice it until I actually tell them how I feel about something. Most people just know me to be someone who is confident, not the other way around.<br />
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God knows that I am capable of being the confident woman he made me be; I, as the human being, get myself caught up in the wrong thought process of it all and lose sight of all the great things in front of me. As long as I am intentional in making the right changes, I will get that confidence I need back! It's there, but she has to be ready to show herself when it's time.<br />
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<br />msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-14947841983842370392018-05-10T23:18:00.001-04:002018-05-10T23:18:13.565-04:00The MOST difficult challenges become the greatest lessons to learn from... As I look at today's date, I just realized that it was on this day, 10 years ago, that I graduated from my Alma Mater, Prairie View A&M University! To say that I have learned so much about myself would be an UNDERSTATEMENT! I will list the biggest or poignant lessons I have learned within the past ten years post Undergrad.<br />
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<b><i><u>The biggest lesson of all: you can't compare your life to others in your circle, class, work life, etc. </u></i></b><br />
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Although I am still learning this daily, I have come to realize that my journey in life is not going to mirror someone else's life or journey. Too many nights, I have racked my brain trying to figure out: "How did this person get this job over me?" or "I'm more qualified than they are; how are they getting so many interviews?" or the big one: "Now, I KNOW I am smarter than they are, so how are they understanding these concepts or aspects of the job/assignment better than I am?" I would stress and worry about stuff that ended up not working out for the other people in the long run, so it was all of that worry for nothing! With this lesson, I put so much on myself to try and be "perfect," or create whatever my concept of "normal" was, and in the end, it wasn't the best choice to make. God had to show me that my way of thinking was wrong. Because of this, I choose self-reflection when those thoughts or moments arise, which has been working well for me! I continue learning this lesson, and I welcome the ability to steer away from the negativity!<br />
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<b><u><i>Another lesson: you can not expect people to help you 100% of the time if you haven't done the work or put in the effort.</i></u></b><br />
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Through all the trials and problems these past 10 years have had, I can honestly say that I've been shown grace and mercy by God, through other people. I, however, had to put forth the effort needed to receive the help because if I didn't do so, I can't say I would be here to write this blog post. Between my church, family and those with whom I have met since moving away from home, my journey, although a rocky one, has been one large test! The aforementioned people gave me what I needed and would give me multiple chances to make better decisions, even after helping me out the first time. There have been circumstances where I didn't have enough money to get the bare necessities or had all the funds needed to get a car or even had what I needed to pay my cell phone bill, but the fact that I was a student or working PT showed that I was at least trying to better myself. At one point in time, I had to pull income from three PT jobs just to make ends meet, and I still didn't have enough to cover all expenses, so I had to either succumb to the lack of funds or ask for help. Because I was doing the best I could under ever-changing issues, I was given support for my efforts. I can't thank everyone enough who made the decision to help me during many tough times.<br />
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<b><u><i>Final lesson: MENTAL HEALTH IS IMPORTANT, SO DON'T TAKE IT FOR GRANTED!</i></u></b><br />
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Some of you reading this may not know this, but I was in a dark place of what some would call depression some 8 years ago. Although I was not clinically or officially diagnosed with depression, I showed depressive-like symptoms, which caused me to take medication. I wouldn't even get out of bed for 12 hours at a time! I honestly didn't think much of it until I had a talk with the school therapist at the time about what I was feeling. THAT was certainly a turning point for me, since I hadn't experienced these symptoms before that time. Could I attribute it to being in a new place and being away from home for the first time? Sure, but I had to do more than just talk about it; I had to take action to correct what was going on with me. I thank GOD for getting me through that because my current MBA journey would not have happened if I didn't recover from that moment in time back then. I don't even think I would be where I am mentally if I hadn't gone through that part of my life. Given the fact that I am close to finishing my second degree, it would have been much tougher to complete my MBA, let alone attempt to do much else without my desire to remain positive and stay focused on the end goal. Tricking my brain to see things in a positive light has definitely helped me to not stay in a stuck place of feeling down, sad, complacent, etc. I've had to learn that it takes a strong person to persevere through a rough patch such as mental health issues, even more so if you are having to push through them alone or without loved ones close by. All in all, I continue to seek advise and counsel not only from God, but from other professionals within the community in order to maintain the best balanced mind possible. I encourage ANY AND EVERYONE: get help if you need help! Even if you don't think you need help, it doesn't hurt to talk to someone every once in a while, that way you can get out of your own head! I am still learning this lesson, but I have certainly made it a point to speak with counsel more often since 2010. <br />
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I hope this has given you a different perspective on life's ever-changing issues or provided you with a bit more insight on who I am. Thanks for reading and please comment below if you feel moved to do so! <br />
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~msvwade~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-71789626002172500202017-04-08T16:14:00.000-04:002017-04-08T18:20:57.257-04:00What's on your To-Do List today? So, lately, I have been very productive with writing down and sending myself my TDLs. Not only do I put anything and everything on my Google calendar, but I have created alarms and lists of things I need to do each day or week.<br />
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I have also used Evernote and other productivity apps like QuickMemo (on my Android) that helps me to write quick notes or reminders for myself throughout the day, just in case I forget something important. I knew I had to change my time management skills and do something different in order to have a more fulfilling life. It takes doing something different to get something different; who could argue with that? Lol. <br />
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So, I'm curious...What apps or productivity tools do you use? Comment below and share how they've help you be more productive in your life!<br />
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Enjoy your week!<br />
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While I was away, I had to take care of some things while I was at home in Houston, TX. Some things were taken care of (i.e. Housing for the Fall semester, grades from Summer school, etc) while some things seemed like it took forever to handle (i.e. Financial Aid). I ended up taking on the stresses of uncontrollable issues, despite following up on them constantly. No matter how things ended up, I was able to look to my family and friends for guidance and support (literally!) The best part of my group of friends: <span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace;"><u>I CAN BE ME WITHOUT ANY JUDGMENT! </u></span>My closest friends have known me since elementary/middle school and whenever I am in town, we always go to the movies or out to eat. The Sunday before I left town, I took a picture with my twin brother and two of my closest friends. We had planned to go to Dave and Busters, but we just ended up talking outside of the restaurant for an hour or so. Those moments are precious and very important to me and I wouldn't trade it for the world! </div>
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I wrote on Facebook how when you are blessed with quality, loyal friends, you must spend time with them! When I have gone through some things (and when I am still going through some things, frankly) I know I can count on them for inspiration, prayer and wisdom. I make it a point for us to hang out whenever I am in town because you never know what can happen to them! These friends/family members are also praying for me to succeed and turn my life around and they know the end of the tunnel is near :) . As I always say, despite the challenges I have gone through, the lessons and those praying family members/friends are what keep me going. To my loyal friends and loved ones, thank you for letting me be me! When you have a praying family/set of friends, there isn't anything you can't do! </div>
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(BTW HAPPY 6 YEAR ATLANTA ANNIVERSARY TO ME!) -msvwade</div>
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msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-31446578013548081962016-08-15T19:54:00.000-04:002016-08-16T13:24:00.041-04:00What's Next? Where should I start? <br />
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I have been through many different turns and twists, but when you can talk about it and be a light to others, it is worth the journey.<br />
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There were many distractions during my Spring semester in my current MBA program (I don't think I mentioned me being in an MBA program, but I am! It's definitely a blessing not without hurdles, lol!) From the course load being a bit more strenuous to having to move-out and figure out where else I would live, I had a lot to deal with on my plate. I felt like I was in a maze or a snowball that kept unraveling! It became so much of a mental strain that I took a some time away from everything and had a weekend to two to do absolutely NOTHING! Lol. Yes, it was possibly hurtful to my classwork and more, but who knows what would have happened had I not done that?<br />
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As the semester winded down, I had the chance to start the process of chartering an organization on campus. Between myself and another colleague, we started with the idea, then it came to pass with the application. Recently, it was approved, so the hard work was worth it! Summer brought Summer school and a scholarship to pay for classes! I also had the chance to live on campus as an Resident Assistant. That was a much needed experience and it taught me how to work with many different people and other ways to help people. I had a concern on whether or not I would be able to have Financial Aid, along with where I would live for Fall/Spring, but everything has worked out: from Housing to tuition/fees being covered! GOD is the main source of how it all worked for me and my faith has increased even more! The more I stress and worry, the less I can focus on the good things God has done for me! The biggest thing: this MBA program will be done within 18 months!<br />
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NOTHING BUT GOD!msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-44272775170225727262016-01-09T00:32:00.001-05:002016-01-09T00:32:49.376-05:002016Sometimes, things hit you like a ton of bricks. <br />
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<br />msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-13566810144856558782015-06-20T18:40:00.000-04:002015-06-20T18:40:15.635-04:00Another Year, Another Me.Hey Y'all! <div>
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I am not surprised that it's been almost a whole 12 months since my last post! Lol. When life hands you lemons, you gotta make that lemonade :) Nevertheless, I am back in the saddle and STILL excited about writing and sharing my life with people (or as much as I'm willing to share). Quick update:</div>
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<li>Received a "Nesty" Award from Eagle's Nest Church for Outstanding Service in 2014</li>
<li>Worked with 2 separate Entrepreneurs in separate industries</li>
<li>Recruited a Consultant within my Mary Kay Business </li>
<li>Continued to push my Pink Zebra Brand to more customers, and MOST IMPORTANTLY</li>
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In-between all of those things happening, LIFE still happened and I am grateful to still be present to talk about anything and everything. Honestly, I an in a really good place, despite some not-so-good things that may have taken place lately. As long as I continue to smile and BE happy (not just look happy), God has my back! </div>
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I am excited to be starting a new venture, hopefully within the next week. This new opportunity will teach me a lot on how to adapt to consistent changes and time management, so I am very excited to press forward and continue the learning process. As soon as it's official, I will let you know! </div>
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<b>If you need a last minute Father's Day gift, contact me or send me a msg: marykay.com/vwade2003.</b></div>
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msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-15717333429945772172014-10-04T15:32:00.001-04:002014-10-04T15:32:14.848-04:00So...how have you been? :0)Hey, y'all!<br />
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How are you doing today? Depending on when you read this, I hope your day/evening is going great!<br />
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Per my last post, here is a brief update since my move:<br />
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My main reason to move to GA was to work in the field of Mass Media or Media Entertainment. Between different jobs to make ends meet, I was in Graduate school online for two more years. Needless to say, I am no longer in that program (for reasons I won't discuss here), and for two years after that, I worked in the Retail Banking industry. One Bank afforded me the opportunity to work as a Business Banker, where I would solicit businesses to open Business accounts and to utilize our products and services. It was a definite growing experience and I am glad that I had a chance to work with a different Bank as recent as last year.<br />
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My second Retail Banking experience was with a Bank that is more well-known and one that offers more options for Bankers. My position there was in a Supervisory role, Personal Banker and Teller role hybrid, along with helping out in other areas as needed. A tough decision came when I had to decide on whether or not to continue working FT or attend Graduate school FT. Needless to say, I am a FT Grad student here in Atlanta and couldn't be happier!<br />
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Since I started the program, I have learned so much about the Business-world, other people and how we can be successful to be 6-figure wage earners, lol! God made the decision an easy one for me to make, because, I now have the opportunity to work-from-home and earn an income from that! It will take some time, but the small hump will end with victory when it is all over. THANK YOU GOD!<br />
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So, although I didn't go into lengthy details of my 4 years here in Atlanta so far, I think this is good for now ;)<br />
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Side note: I am looking for a name for my Instagram account, but can't decide on what! Please leave a comment below on what you think is a good idea. <br />
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God bless! ~msvwade~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-44199530394233207012014-10-04T12:49:00.002-04:002016-09-04T16:01:44.072-04:00BLAST FROM THE PAST: T-5 DAYS N COUNTING!<span style="font-family: "arial" , "helvetica" , sans-serif;"><b>Good afternoon, Fam! It's been a long time since I've written a post, however, my motivation has changed, so here goes! The post below is from 8/28/2009, 5 days before I officially moved to Atlanta from Clarion, PA. It is short and sweet, so please comment below and I look forward to your subscription! I will write another post soon, as a "Flash Forward" to discuss where I am today.</b></span><br />
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<i>Hello again to all!</i><br />
<i><br /></i> <i>Hope everyone's day (or evening, whenever you plan to read this), is doing well. My day was good, could have been better, but no time or need to complain. Something was on my mind, so I would like to share. Here goes!</i><br />
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I was so blessed to see another birthday year and live through 2013. Honestly, it was a year of many ups and downs, but I survived!!<br />
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I pray that anyone reading this had a great 2013 and will have an even better 2014! So many things are happening in my life this year, and it's only day 11!<br />
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My one and only resolution is to follow-through on all my commitments...whether big or small. If I have to downgrade or take something away in regards to what I said I would do, that will be a decision made when it's time. If at some point I choose to let go of the resolution and just DO IT w/o having to say what I want to do, that may happen sooner than later. <br />
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A resolution helps to say what we WANT to do, but overall, you have to JUST DO IT!<br />
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God has favored me and HE will continue to do so. I have some projects in the works, so be on the lookout for me!<br />
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Lastly, I created an ABOUT.ME page; please check it out and Let me know what you think: <a href="http://about.me/vwadeprod22">about.me/vwadeprod22</a><br />
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Peace and love in 2014,<br />
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<br />msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-53036285515508242522013-06-16T22:36:00.000-04:002013-06-16T22:36:16.859-04:00Feeling Motivated on Father's Day... :) <b><span style="color: blue; font-family: Georgia, Times New Roman, serif;">HAPPY FATHER'S DAY TO ALL THE DADS OUT THERE!</span></b><br />
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Hey to all my subscribers!<br />
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I KNOW it has been a VERY long time, but I NEEDED to write something today, if not, period.<br />
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First, I have been through some very trying, yet life-changing experiences that have helped me to become more humble and compassionate towards others. One of them being, resigning from my job in May. For me, that was one of the most peaceful decisions made in my lifetime. For some, it may be a "stupid" decision to make, but we ALL live different lives that aren't always supposed to be what <b>people</b> want us to do. To me, there's only one person who I have to answer to and despite the continued words of leary-ness, I am completely fine, SERIOUSLY, lol. Yes, I know my challenges ahead of me, but they aren't impossible with God's help/direction.<br />
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Secondly, I am more in the mentality of working my two (soon to be three) businesses, along with, of course, looking for better opportunities to fund my businesses. I will have more info on them at the end of this post. At this point, it's all about managing my time and making every moment and minute count. I have too much God-given talent to let it go to waste and not utilize it to generate a stream of income. We ALL have a talent we were born with; so go out there and use it! I have realized on more than one occasion that I keep missing opportunities to become better at something God has given me. The light bulb has come on, so to speak, lol!<br />
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So before this gets too long, here are links to my two enterprises:<br />
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<a href="http://www.pinkzebrahome.com/vzebra" target="_blank">www.pinkzebrahome.com/vzebra </a>(Pink Zebra: candle fragrances and home decor)<br />
<a href="http://www.marykay.com/vwade2003">www.marykay.com/vwade2003</a> (Mary Kay)<br />
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If you have any comments/questions, concerns, please leave your thoughts in the comments section.<br />
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God bless you!<br />
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P.S. It is really rejuvenating how much I love to write and how therapeutic it is! Thanks to all my supporters and those who I am working with behind the scenes :)<br />
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~ms. vwade~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-56608532584093534682012-10-23T15:21:00.002-04:002012-10-23T15:21:24.750-04:00MUSIC TUESDAY! 10.23.12 SUPPORT GREAT MUSIC!OMG! I JUST found out that KEM released a Christmas Album LAST WEEK via Itunes. After hearing the samples, I knew I had to buy it. I most certainly will support him very soon! He has been consistent with his music and he isn't an artist that feels he NEEDS to change with the climate of the music industry. Some of the Christmas songs have a Jazz-influence with it, too. His voice is such a great addition to ANY song and if he can start his career in his late 30's, so can anyone else! Click here for KEM's Christmas album: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00997NGFG/ref=cm_cr_dpvoterdr?ie=UTF8&keywords=kem%20christmas&qid=1351018917&sr=8-1#R1CCWXGRGSJWN2.2115.Helpful.Reviews" target="_blank">"What Christmas Means." </a> He NEVER disappoints!<br />
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As we all know, Brandy released her 6th studio album last week, too called "Two Eleven." MY FAVORITE ARTIST IN THE WHOLE WORLD! Well, her and AALIYAH! I have heard that she went back to her roots with this album, so I know I'm buying it! Her previous albums, "Human" and "Aphrodisiac" were GREAT, imho. Just because the "industry" is fickle when they have a great piece of work in front of them, it doesn't mean she should be counted out as an artist. I loved her reality show, however, there were some things I didn't like or wanted to see within her family. I appreciate her showing that side to us, though...no doubt. Click to support Brandy's <a href="http://www.amazon.com/Two-Eleven-Deluxe-Version-Brandy/dp/B008PO8PIC/ref=sr_1_1?s=music&ie=UTF8&qid=1351019456&sr=1-1&keywords=brandy" target="_blank">Two Eleven</a>.<br />
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Last, but certainly NOT least, SILK IS BACK! They released TODAY (10.23.12) a new Christmas single called "Home For Christmas." I tweeted them over the weekend and they said there will be a new album coming in 2013! Prayerfully, it happens cause I've been waiting for SIX YEARS! LOL! You can support Silk by buying their single for $.99 cents on ITunes. Show them some love! <br />
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Always, stay positive, progressive and prosperous. <br />
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~Ms. VNW~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-20440820358093417302012-09-30T18:31:00.000-04:002012-09-30T18:31:15.179-04:00Part 2: Baptism Video...and More! 9.30.12Hey everyone! How is your Sunday going?<br />
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I hope you all had a great week :) Always remember that Sunday is the start of a new week and what happened last week is OLD NEWS!<br />
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For those that don't know, I got baptized last Sunday (9.23.12) and I said I would have the video on the actual Baptism available for you to view today. There were many family and friends that couldn't attend the service, so I wanted to give you all a chance to experience it as if you were there!<br />
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Below is the video: tell me in the Comments section what you think:<br />
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<a href="https://www.dropbox.com/s/bb6zrffuwy8ctxh/Valencia%20Wade.avi" target="_blank">VALENCIA'S BAPTISM VIDEO</a><br />
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<b><i><u>For the Music Lovers!</u></i></b><br />
This Tuesday, Faith Evans is releasing a new album called R&B Divas, inspired by the new reality series she produced called "R&B Divas" on TVOne. You can watch it every Monday night at 10pm EST. Each song is a duet with another cast-member of the show along with a special song with Kelly Price. Support her and her music along with the other "Divas" featured on the album. Here's a link to pre-order the album, if you wish: <a href="http://www.amazon.com/R-B-Divas-Faith-Evans/dp/B0091G7BEC/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1349042672&sr=8-1&keywords=faith+evans" target="_blank">"R&B Divas" Album.</a><br />
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I wanted to share a few tidbits I learned in Church today from my Pastor, Lee Jenkins. This is regarding EXCELLENCE and how it plays into our daily lives:<br />
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"Excellence has NOTHING to do with anyone else but you and GOD."<br />
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"Doing the BEST you can do with what GOD gave you = EXCELLENCE."<br />
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"You should never be so busy to where you can't pray."<br />
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"The spirit of EXCELLENCE should govern EVERYTHING a Christian does."<br />
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Lastly, don't forget to subscribe and leave a comment on this post; I'm interested to know what you think! Always stay positive, progressive and prosperous!<br />
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Peace and love,<br />
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msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-24278977819705908062012-09-23T23:14:00.000-04:002012-09-23T23:14:13.927-04:00I GOT BAPTIZED!!! Part 1... 9.23.12WHAT A GLORIOUS DAY!<br />
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Today was the day I gave my life to Christ Jesus, my Lord and Savior! I will NEVER forget it! The overall experience was a bittersweet one: my parents weren't there, but it was still worth it because I had my Church family with me. I cried and boo-hooed! It hit me even more as I walked up the stairs to the pool pit.<br />
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I made this decision for me, not for anyone else. That was one of the things I became conflicted with: doing this just for show and not for the right reasons. After I was dunked in the water, I knew I made the right decision. Everything made sense at that moment. <br />
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I plan to have a video of the actual Baptism for those who didn't get a chance to see it. That will be Part 2 of this blog post. <br />
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No matter what, stay positive, progressive and prosperous!<br />
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Peace and blessings,<br />
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~VNW~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-1991295300223827992012-09-02T19:21:00.002-04:002012-09-08T14:01:46.273-04:00Two years and Music Tuesday 9.2.12!<b><i><br /></i></b>
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Today marks two whole years since I moved to Atlanta (to stay for good) and I can't be more happy to have made such a great decision. I knew that if I didn't step out on faith and make that long drive to GA, I would have felt the "shoulda, coulda, wouldas" and long term feelings of regret. Despite some trials and tribulations here, I enjoy my time and the people that have blessed my life abundantly. Atlanta is such a progressive and prosperous city that, <b>IRREGARDLESS</b> of what is depicted on TV, it's still a great place to live. You ultimately have to block out negativity to get to what's <b>AWESOME</b> about the city.<br />
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<b><i>Music Tuesday: Tamia's "Beautiful Surprise" and Dwele's "Greater Than One"</i></b><br />
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Two fave artists of mine released their most recent album this past Tuesday, 8.28.12: Tamia and Dwele! Tamia never releases an album that I don't like and if the album is evident of the first single, the title track "Beautiful Surprise," then I can't wait to hear the rest! She's an artist who I don't have to hear their whole CD in order to make a purchase; she as an artist herself is what makes me want to support her. Dwele is the same way; his voice and artistry are one of the reasons why I always support him. If you haven't heard his music, I highly recommend it!!! Click the album titles to purchase and support these artists:<br />
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Tamia:<br />
<a href="http://www.amazon.com/Beautiful-Surprise-Tamia/dp/B008BSM20Y/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1346626832&sr=8-1&keywords=tamia" target="_blank">Beautiful Surprise</a><br />
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Dwele:<br />
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<b><i>More info to come on my business and other great things before the end of the year! Thank you to those reading this blog and please write your comments on the blog; I 'd LOVE to respond!! </i></b><br />
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<b><i>Peace and love with positivity, progression and prosperity,</i></b><br />
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msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-83665297093232143642012-08-14T23:09:00.001-04:002012-08-14T23:09:27.819-04:00Music Tuesday, Past and Future 8.14.12<br />
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As most or some of us may know: Elle Varner (real name Gabrielle Varner) released her debut album, <i>Perfectly Imperfect</i> last week. I am very impressed with this girl!!! She got her start with Wendy Raquel Robinson's Amazing Grace Conservatory Academy in California and from there, has really taken off. She has such a raw talent and unique voice, which I'm sure is how she stands out vocally. Her style is also a great statement within itself. It's great to know that there are still authentic artists wanting to be themselves and not putting out an image that they claim is really them. I love her song, "Refill" and I can't wait to actually buy this CD. If you have it, leave some comments as to what you like about the album. <br />
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Mariah Carey released a new single also last week called "Triumphant" feat. Rick Ross and Meek Mill. It sounds...OK. I honestly miss the Mariah who sung w/o having rappers/hip-hop artists on her tracks. It's OK every now and then, but I don't think it should be a constant thing. Oh well, I guess she will do that when she feels like it.<br />
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Lastly, Trey Songz' new CD <i><strike>IIII</strike> </i>comes out on this coming Tuesday, the 21st and so far, there are a few songs I enjoy, but I don't plan to buy the whole album. You can listen to the album for FREE on ITunes the next few days, but act fast; I don't know when the free trial will end. <br />
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Tell me your thoughts on ALL of these artists in the comments below!<br />
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You can find me here:<br />
<a href="https://twitter.com/vwadeATL">Valencia's Twitter</a><br />
<a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Endless-Possibilities/452018848171613">Valencia's new FanPage</a><br />
<a href="http://www.marykay.com/vwade2003/en-US/Pages/default.aspx">Valencia's Mary Kay website</a> (BOGO SALE GOING ON RIGHT NOW!)<br />
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Peace and blessings to all and remember: stay positive, progressive and prosperous!!<br />
~VNW~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-46227422616158697632012-08-04T18:23:00.000-04:002012-08-04T18:23:56.004-04:00"On Beauty," Streams of Income and Updates! 8.4.12Long time! Hey, everyone!<br />
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I am working on a project (that you all can view its first episode NOW here: <a href="http://www.onbeautywithdocwaller.com/">On Beauty With Doc Waller</a>. that has REALLY changed my perspective on so many things, but mainly how we as humans should treat one another. As the remaining episodes are being produced (there's going to be two-four left to work on for Season One), check back to the website above to see some more behind-the-scenes goodies! It's time to support quality, intellectual and worthwhile content! For information on the Host/Producer of the show, check out <a href="http://www.thedocwaller.com/">Doc Waller </a>and the Production Company which the show is under, <a href="http://www.thereneco.com/">Rene 511, Inc</a>.<br />
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Praise JESUS, I got offered a JOB! I interviewed over a week ago and contingent on passing the requirements for the Pre-employment process for the position, I will be able to start working on the 5th of September, with PAID training to begin in a week or so. I wish I could tell you that there was some sort of trick or gimmick I used to get the job offer. OK, here it is: I HAD A POSITIVE ATTITUDE AND WAS ENTHUSIASTIC! I was so blessed to even be granted the interview itself that when the Manager called me to confirm the interview time, my voice and attitude was upbeat and happy. I literally was excited to get a callback for an interview since I hadn't had many of those in the 5+ months of being unemployed. Showing a potential employer that you not only are anxious to work and start a new job but also give them a positive perspective makes a HUGE difference. I attended a Career Fair the week before and I used tips from that event for the interview. I ACED the interview and they un-officially offered me the job that day! Of course, after following protocol of interviewing more candidates and me interviewing with the HR Manager, it wasn't official yet. In this economy and state we are in with finances, we have to not only find resources to improve on our job skills, but we MUST think outside of the box when it comes to finding employment and other streams of income.<br />
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Since my life-changing interview, I have searched and looked into more ways that I can generate an income. These possibilities are legit, as I wouldn't be doing them if that wasn't the case. Through other people via Facebook and other media outlets, I have chosen to look into other money-earning opportunities. I feel we have to get out of the mentality of SOLELY working a 9-5 job in order to provide for ourselves and our families. It has been proven (and I am a living testimony to it) that those jobs aren't guaranteed to us and no matter what happens or how hard you can work, you can still get laid-off or terminated. Not saying this to scare anyone, however, that is the reality of the situation. Now, I know I just praised Jesus about a job where I will be working for someone else, and yes, you have to do what you NEED to do in order to get to where you WANT to be; just don't lose sight on working to generate additional income outside of that main job. That, in a nutshell, is what I want everyone to understand. I plan to work my butt off with this new position AND work at building a residual, consistent income in addition to the job. <br />
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Here are the current opportunities I have signed up to do. These are FREE to sign-up! There is no cost to sign-up for an account. Some require completion of offers AFTER THE FREE SIGN-UP, but you can still earn money from the work you do. After doing so, please contact me if you have any further questions. To me, the payout is MUCH greater in the end :) If you don't want to sign-up right away and prefer to consult a lawyer first, feel free! I don't want to encourage anyone to do something they ultimately feel uncomfortable doing. I simply am providing other unconventional ways to earn additional money.<br />
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1. ClickBank: <a href="http://www.clickbank.com/index.html">http://www.clickbank.com/index.html</a><br />
2. ZNZ: <a href="http://one.zipnadazilch.com/index.php?referral=619878">http://one.zipnadazilch.com/index.php?referral=619878</a><br />
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4. Partner With Paul: <b style="color: #990000;"><a href="http://www.partnerwithpaul.com/go/27825">http://www.partnerwithpaul.com/go/27825</a></b><br />
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Click <a href="http://www.myfreedomquest.info/">HERE</a> for more legit opportunities!<br />
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One more thing...<br />
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Want to plan a party or need a refill on that mascara? Check out my <a href="https://www.facebook.com/notes/v-nacole-wade/mary-kay-memorial-day-sale-extended-until-i-sell-out-my-personal-inventory/10150852244973935">inventory</a> and Buy One, Get One half off! Place your order here and contact me if you have other questions :) <a href="http://www.marykay.com/vwade2003">Valencia Wade Mary KAY</a>.<br />
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Peace and love, everyone and remember: stay positive, progressive and prosperous!<br />
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<span style="color: #990000;"><b><br /></b></span>msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-4572641147343023572012-06-21T21:22:00.000-04:002012-06-21T21:22:08.341-04:00What A Week! and Music Tuesdays 6.21.12Wow! What can I say about the last month, let alone the last 10 days???<br />
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Through the bumps, I have had a very interesting few weeks. "When you're feeling down, you should never fake it." - Mary J. Blige, MY LIFE. I have had that feeling during this time; I don't want to put up any kind of facade, regardless of how I was dealing with the pain. If I am down or feeling not up to par, I want to be able to show it. When I am in that state of mind, of course, people will ask me, "what's wrong?" To which I reply with a "I don't want to talk about it" or " I'm doing well." Honestly, things ARE well in MY eyes: I have the capability to STILL speak, touch, think, walk, smell, taste, breathe and see my life EACH DAY, despite the odds against me, so everything is FINE. God blesses me with life each day and from the beginning of my turmoil to present-day, I am forever grateful for it. This is a small storm, but the little things that have been overlooked before have really kept me enlightened. <br />
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Last Saturday, I pulled over to the side of the road so I could make a phone call. I had my sensors on so that passer-bys would know I was on the side of the road, not from being hurt, just being pulled over. About 10 minutes later, two guys pull in front of me to make sure I was OK! When one guy came to my driver's side door, I rolled down my window and he asked if I needed help with a flat tire or gas. I told him "No" since I was making a call for directions. He said OK and thought I was in some kind of trouble. When he left, I thanked God for that interaction because ANYTHING could have happened with that interaction. He was kind enough to REALLY want to help me and to be a support system, if only for a moment. Those are the kinds of people that are willing to go out of their way to help another. Not to sound cliche', but it does make the environment/world a better living space when perfect strangers can approach you with no ulterior motives in mind. <br />
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Wednesday was one for the books! I actually met with a prayer group EARLY IN THE MORNING and told them about my situation. They prayed with me and helped me along for the rest of my day. My appointment time wasn't for 1pm, so I was at my destination VERY early, to say the least. I saw it as God showing me another outlet for spiritual strength during this rough patch. It definitely helped/is helping. I literally have no where else to turn but to a higher spiritual source, so that is what is going to keep me sane and stable. <br />
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Briefly diverting...MUSIC TUESDAYS!<br />
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Last week was Usher's seventh studio album release: <i>Looking For Myself.</i> I have only downloaded two songs thus far. Until more become appealing, I will download more :) I understand this change he is going through with his music is going to take me a bit longer to catch up to it, personally. He as an artist has truly evolved and the industry around him is evolving, too. So, although I don't really agree with some of the music choices, I understand them. If you can't take the heat, get out of the kitchen! R. Kelly is coming out with an album THIS COMING TUESDAY , called <i>Write Me Back. </i>It is a continuation of his last album, <i>Love Letter</i>, where he does music from different eras. This time, the songs are most reflective of 1960's-70's Soul/R&B music. Despite his personal struggles, one thing's for sure: he is still a creative music artist. The previous week (before Usher's release), Eric Benet released his newest effort called <i>The One. </i> With songs like "Harriet Jones" and Real Love," Eric Benet came back with a bang! This album is also the FIRST release from his OWN label, Jordan House Records. I can say that his velvety smooth voice truly defies gravity and amazes me to no end! LOL! I saw him in February perform LIVE and let me tell you...AWESOMENESS!!! His live performance of his GRAMMY-NOMINATED HIT, "Sometimes I Cry" was JUST LIKE the record! He even sung some parts longer, which didn't make any difference to me; I am becoming a HUGE fan of his! It takes guts to please an audience of fans/naysayers when you have had a public relationship/divorce with an A-List actress. He's a stand-up guy who's now re-married and has a newborn baby at home. So as the saying goes, "Life is good..." for Eric Benet. Go cop those albums!!!<br />
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Thank you for reading and please comment and subscribe to my blog. It means so much that there are people who want to read my thoughts and know more about who I am. Stay encouraged in the fight to be positive, progressive and prosperous! It may seem like it is hard, but when you get rid of the negativity, it is that much easier!<br />
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~V. Wade~<br />msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-12473260957989953892012-05-24T21:19:00.000-04:002012-05-24T21:19:38.344-04:00Being Unemployed: Good or Bad Thing?Hey everyone!<br />
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I can't believe it has been so long since my last posting. Did you miss me???? LOL!<br />
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This will be a short post as I was inspired to write the recent on-goings of my life this month in reference to the title. <br />
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On May 2nd, I had the AWESOME opportunity to be an extra in a movie being shot here in Atlanta. Me AND my car were shot for some scenes. Hopefully, you will see me in it when the movie comes out NEXT May! That moment and since that moment have really been great for me because I don't have the "9-5" job. I have the free time to pursue GOD'S gifts and to also put energy in what TRULY makes me happy. I don't want to work simply for the money or for the "stability" of a FT job. God has blessed me with other money-making opportunities that will work out for me in the long run. The money may not be instant, but I am patient to wait for that opportunity to materialize. This chance is GOD'S way of telling me to take advantage of this time and to do with it what HE wants. Sure, times get rough where I may not know where my next meal comes from, but overall, I am really happy with this journey. Thank you, GOD!<br />
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Stay inspired, encouraged and prayerful and as always, thank you for reading!<br />
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Wade~msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-6176168732051881652012-04-23T21:56:00.004-04:002012-04-23T22:42:02.920-04:00Short and Sweet 4.23.12<span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Hey everyone!</span></span><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">Glad to be back this week writing to you :) Thank you for choosing to read my blog and if you would, please comment and subscribe to it! </div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; ">I will make this short since I do plan on writing another post later on this week. </div><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">I am always inspired to speak on something whenever I have a great conversation with someone. Tonight, I had one of those wake-up "calls" with <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">LaTanya</span> <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">O'Kelley</span>, a publicist here in Atlanta. She and I had been meaning to connect and communicate, however, due to our lives crossing so much, we hadn't had the chance. Tonight we spoke on the phone for nearly TWO HOURS about any and everything that came to our minds that </span>correlates<span style="font-size: 100%;"> to what we BOTH are doing for ourselves. She actually gave me more information than I could have EVER asked for and I am so GRATEFUL for that. Sometimes, my motivation comes from within, other times it comes from other people who BELIEVE IN ME. Most times, a combination of both of those circumstances come from GOD and he is my ultimate provider. That moment when you need to write your thoughts or when you need to express yourself in a </span>therapeutic<span style="font-size: 100%;"> way isn't by </span>happenstance,<span style="font-size: 100%;"> it's truly a GIFT; cherish it! </span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Always stay inspired by POSITIVE, PROGRESSIVE AND PROSPEROUS people in your life! GOD and those individuals will keep you when no one else is left. </span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span>Side-note<span style="font-size: 100%;">: <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_2">SWV</span> released their latest album last week, "I Missed Us" after 15 years! REAL R&B RETURNS! Click here for their <a href="http://therealswv.com/">OFFICIAL WEBSITE</a> and check them out on tour here: <a href="http://www.freshmusicfestival.com/">Fresh Music Festival.</a></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">As always, stay </span>positive,<span style="font-size: 100%;"> progressive and prosperous and don't let ANYONE tell you otherwise or that you can't DO anything you set your goals upon. </span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Peace and many blessings,</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">~<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_3">msvwade</span>~</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div>msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-53323100854594234832012-04-10T20:46:00.004-04:002012-04-10T22:17:26.702-04:00MUSIC TUESDAY! and JUST A THOUGHT 4.10.12<span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Hey everyone! It has been a minute, but I'm back! Just a few small thoughts before Music Tuesday:</span></span><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">I was at church last Sunday and I thought I lost my coin purse. When I went back in the facility (our service was held at a Country Club) to find it, I went to the kitchen area and asked a staff member if they saw it. The male staff member said he would ask another member of the staff who was in the area where church service was held. In the meantime, he asked if I was hungry </span>and<span style="font-size: 100%;"> I immediately said "Yes." The male staff member came back with a plate full of breakfast food and asked if I wanted something else. Before I could answer, he took my plate away from me and gave me some more food. The whole time I was concerned and telling him that I didn't want him to lose his job because he was serving me food without his co-workers knowing. He told me: "just take it and be blessed." Those words have resonated with me ever since. Virtually a complete stranger was willing to potentially risk his job in order to bless me with food. Isn't GOD amazing? He is ALWAYS there for you when you least expect it.</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Another thought: After service THIS Easter Sunday, my Pastor and I usually chat it up and have small talk. Within the conversation, I mentioned my situation regarding gas for my car and he gave me $20 to put towards my tank. I couldn't believe it, but then again, I could, since he is that type of man, a MAN OF GOD. Again, unexpected, but was so grateful to GOD for him doing that for me. Just thought I would share that. </span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">MUSIC TUESDAY:</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Monica's BACK!</span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Monica released her new album today called, "NEW LIFE." It features the single : It All Belongs To Me," the second duet with Brandy and the follow-up to the smash hit" The Boy Is Mine." Two other singles, "Until It's Gone" and "Without You" are also featured on the album. I am excited that she is back out there with new music and also has a new life with her hubby, Shannon Brown. I'm very glad and happy that she's happy. I feel as if I have grown up with her since I have known of her music since I was a young girl. </span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;"><br /></span></span></div><div><span><span style="font-size: 100%;">Check out Monica's new release along with the soundtrack to "Think Like A Man" and <span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_0">K'Jon's</span> new album "Moving On" (I haven't heard from him in three years!) here: <a href="http://music.aol.com/new-releases-full-cds/#/1">Music Tuesday.</a></span></span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>SIDE NOTE: Did anyone see "Scandal," starring Kerry Washington last week? If not, here's the first two episodes: <a href="http://abc.go.com/watch/scandal/SH55126555">Scandal on ABC! </a></span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>As always, surround yourself with positive, progressive and prosperous individuals. You can shoot for the stars; YOU just have to believe in yourself! Keep GOD first and please comment and subscribe if you haven't already!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Peace, love and many blessings to you all!</div><div><br /></div><div>~<span class="blsp-spelling-error" id="SPELLING_ERROR_1">msvwade</span>~</div>msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-64660665179448384762012-03-28T09:55:00.005-04:002012-03-28T12:50:56.187-04:00March 28th, 2012: Is It Wrong?I posed that question because there are things that I do (although not perfect at), that I would expect others to do, but DON'T do. <div><br /></div><div>Is wrong for me to think that people will be courteous?</div><div>Is it wrong for me to think that gratitude could/should go a long way?</div><div>Is it wrong for me to move away from someone who sneezes/coughs, while being sick, without covering their mouth?</div><div>Is it wrong to move on from a job and start your own career?</div><div>Is it wrong to NOT settle for what you KNOW is not in GOD's plan for you?</div><div>Is it wrong to expect adults to ACT as such? </div><div>Is it wrong to be respectful to others' privacy? </div><div>Is it wrong to put someone down due to their misfortune?</div><div>Is it wrong to expect children to behave or to be raised properly?*</div><div>Is it wrong of me to speak properly, as I was raised, AND NOT be judged?</div><div>Is it wrong to be well-mannered AND NOT be judged?</div><div>Is it wrong to also write in proper English, as I was taught, AND NOT be judged?</div><div>Is it wrong to live in a way that isn't what SOCIETY wants me to do/live?</div><div>Is it wrong to not/no longer be around people who AREN'T dreamers or those who want something better for their lives?</div><div>Is it wrong to WANT to be in the company of those who DREAM BIG and who have goals for themselves?</div><div>Is it wrong to better myself and improve on who I am and in the process, leave those behind who aren't doing the same? </div><div>Is it wrong to follow and be mentored by those that are positive, progressive and prosperous?</div><div><br /></div><div>and, lastly:</div><div><br /></div><div>Is it wrong to walk by faith and believe in God?</div><div><br /></div><div>*This pertains more to a subjective opinion, since how children are reared or raised is different for everyone.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>The last question may pose some debates by others, but the others are self explanatory. I don't think it is wrong to expect some, most or all of these things from people, however, I am just one person. <span style="font-size: 100%; ">I had this on my mind for a while, so I decided to share with others as well as get it off my chest. I am not writing this to state that I am perfect because I know that I am not. I fall short of some or most of the things on this list, however, it does pose some thought when dealing with other people.</span></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>After reading some previous posts, I will make the effort to bring back some things I did before: Music Tuesdays and TV show premieres (that I enjoy :0). Anything else I can come up with I'll also do to make the blog uplifting and fun!</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Please subscribe to the blog and comment! I'd like to know what your thoughts are, especially to this particular post.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>I have a petition account on Twitter, <a href="http:///twitter.com/#!/livingsingledvd">@livingsingledvd</a> and a Fan page for the same thing: <a href="https://www.facebook.com/pages/Living-Single-DVD-Petition/166807710085912">Living Single DVD Petition</a>. A post will be coming soon as to what they are all about. </div><div><br /></div><div>Also, @vwadeMKay gives you the opportunity to find new makeup trends, the hottest colors and some products for Men through my Mary Kay store: <a href="http://www.marykay.com/vwade2003/default.aspx">www.marykay.com/vwade2003</a>.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Make it a GREAT day and surround yourself with positive, progressive and prosperous people.</div><div><br /></div><div><br /></div><div>Peace and love,</div><div>~msvwade~</div>msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-71977269352006043492012-03-19T18:05:00.005-04:002012-03-19T21:17:25.886-04:00March 19th, 2012: Positive, Progressive and Prosperous!<span><span style="font-size: 100%;">WHOO! These past two plus years have been a doozy! Let's see? Where do I start? </span></span><div style="font-family: Georgia, serif; font-size: 100%; font-style: normal; font-variant: normal; font-weight: normal; line-height: normal; "><br /></div><div><ul><li><span>I officially moved to Atlanta, GA in September of 2010;</span></li><li><span>Still a Grad student with my current MBA program all the while looking for work;</span></li><li><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; ">Couldn't eat like I needed to due to lack of funds (moved to ATL w/o a job), which in turn had me losing weight;</span></li><li><span>Became employed in December, 2010;</span></li><li><span>Became a Mary Kay Consultant in Feb, 2011;</span></li><li><span>Joined some professional organizations during this time;</span></li><li><span>Struggled with my coursework all the while;</span></li><li><span>Started a new position in November 2011, under the same company;</span></li><li><span>Joined a church in January, 2012;</span></li><li><span>Became "unemployed" in March of 2012</span></li><li><span>Started exploring other options in other companies in the city.</span></li></ul><div><span><br /></span></div></div><div><span>GOD took me out of an environment that became somewhere I didn't need to be. My intent on moving to Atlanta was to work in Broadcast Journalism, (specifically in Radio) and I am at a point where I have the free time to pursue that goal. Atlanta is booming with opportunity and I couldn't be more grateful to GOD for him bringing me safely to GA, by myself, and having this chance to thrive and live here. This is the right time for me being here, and I gotta say, if you want to do ANYTHING in your life, DON'T let people, things, situations hold you back! GOD will protect you along the way and will give you the strength you need to survive; just WALK BY FAITH!! </span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>I can give advice all day, but the one other thing I can also tell you (the person reading this), is to ALWAYS surround yourself with positive, progressive and prosperous people! You shan't fail when you do that because you are in the company of others who are like-minded, as you are, and you CHOSE to lift yourself up. If you even have to change your group of friends/circle of people you hang with, do it! No one can/should be upset at you because you chose to better yourself and those that aren't on the same page aren't willing to go there with you. Either get on or get off...</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>Last thing, I promise, lol! If you DON'T have this, please go and purchase "The Secret" DVD by Rhonda Byrne. When you buy it AND watch it, let ME know what the "secret" really is and what you thought of it.</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>I hope I was able to inspire someone by this post. They will be coming more frequently, so stay tuned!! </span></div><div><br /></div><div><div><span><br /></span></div></div><div><span>A helpful quote(s) from my Pastor, Pastor Lee Jenkins: </span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>"Never put a conjunction where GOD puts a period."</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>"You will never reach your PROMISED LAND if you don't have FAITH."</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>Peace and love,</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; ">V. Wade</span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span>P.S. </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; ">Click</span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; "> </span><a href="http://www.marykay.com/vwade2003" style="font-family: Georgia, serif; ">here</a><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; "> </span><span style="font-family: Georgia, serif; ">to purchase an item from my store! Major discounts coming soon! </span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span><br /></span></div><div><span><br /></span></div>msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2245335358535493443.post-37809211635909447782010-06-23T12:29:00.004-04:002010-06-23T12:40:24.587-04:00HawthorneJada Pinkett Smith has done it again with Season 2 of Hawthorne starting Tuesday, the 22ND. I haven't seen the premiere episode yet, but if Season 2 is any indication of what happened in Season 1, I can't WAIT to see it! <br /><br />FYI, Season 1 is available on DVD also. I plan to buy it ...when my finances get in tack. LOL! <br /><br />Jada has really made a drama favorite with those who "LOVE DRAMA." The show reminds me of an updated version of ER or even Grey's Anatomy, with a twist. The fact that she stars in the series is a plus. Jada being on TV is ALWAYS a plus for me. <br /><br />Remember her being on this show...<br /><br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jj18gdbcLuo">A DIFFERENT WORLD...ONE OF MY FAVE EPISODES! </a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=x5825CXcuhM&feature=related">PART 2</a><br /><br />HAWTHORNE airs on TNT every Wednesday night. I forgot the time, but you can catch it in the evening time. LOL!<br /><br />Peace and love!msband2004http://www.blogger.com/profile/07817056579588282705noreply@blogger.com0